How to Tell if a Woman is Interested in you

If you want see if a woman is interested in you or “attracted” to you then flirting is a sure way to test. Hell, women test, why can’t we as men? Maybe we do and we don’t even realize it. There are many ways to flirt with women, ranging from conversation to physical actions.

The whole conversation that you are having with a woman is having flirtatious subtle wording and body language mixed into it.

Ways to see whether a woman is interested in you are things such as her playing with her hair, leaning in toward you and conveying interest, her hitting you and smiling at the same time, fidgeting, playing with her earring or necklace. Every woman is unique and does different subtle actions, though these are the common patterns. These are all actions that she is portraying interest in you and this is why it is important to be aware of the unconscious.

One of the big indicators that a woman shows if she is interested in you is eye contact. If you make eye contact with the woman and she looks away before you but comfortably, then it is a definite way to show you that she is attracted to you. I don’t mean sit there and stare at her until she looks at you. Though you will notice when you talk to a woman if you hold eye contact for just that little bit longer than her it will show that you are secure in yourself and comfortable, almost too comfortable around her.

A woman seeking your approval is another way to show interest. When a woman asks you if she looks good or tries to get your opinion on something about her that is a SIGN. Women will often look for men they are attracted to. I have experienced and seen men say to a woman “ok it’s time for me to go back to my friend’s, I might see you around.” And they leave and not long after the female is walking around the club looking for them.

If you touch a woman and she allows it and she is not stiff, then she is comfortable around you and you can take the next step. Though if you touch her and she is tense she is not yet comfortable around you and if she resists then it simply means that you have not built enough attraction.

If a woman links her arm inside of yours and she holds it up and doesn’t lean on you then it shows that she is proud to be walking around with you. If you are leading a woman, like you should be doing and holding her hand on the top carrying her to another location, if you let go of the tension a bit and she squeezes your hand then it shows that she is interested. If her hand is slack then she couldn’t care if you let go.

Giving a woman the gift of missing you is a powerful strategy that you can use that will make an explosion of emotions inside of her and get her chasing you. When you push those buttons inside of a woman and then you just leave, it gets them wondering and scared that they might not ever see you again so they therefore chase you.

Once you have made your unconscious mind aware you will be able to transform your dating life, you will be able to tell whether a woman is single or not just by looking at her. You will be able to see a world of women that most men don’t see because they are too busy looking at the woman as an object. Become aware and look for indications and subtle gestures that a woman is attracted to you.

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Ways Of Building Relationships That Last

In building relationships that are good it is usually imperative to understand and respect other people. A relationship where both parties respect and appreciate each other is bond to last a long time. Where there is real friendship, you will notice that each party's interests, desires and opinions are valued.
Without respect and understanding between two people, love cannot exist. I have come to realize that love is all about friendship. You cannot love someone if they are not your friend. Your partner must be the one who makes you happy, with whom you like sharing your experiences and secrets. This way you will end up building relationships that last.
Ideally, lovers are two people who do not really care whether the rest of the world exists. They like having fun together and supporting each other.  In true friendship, a lover is one who will understand and support the other in times of need instead of, blaming them or abandoning them. A real lover does not find fault but always understands and forgives. For you to succeed in building relationships that last you need to be tender and considerate to your partner.
In building relationship, each one must understand and like the attributes of the other and also try to live with their weaknesses unconditionally. This is because you may not be able to change the character of your partner. As the saying goes; "You cannot teach an old dog, new tricks". In any case both of you actually do have weaknesses. But with understanding, you can surely enjoy a relationship.
Therefore, when building relationships it is very crucial for both parties to be respectful and understanding. You should support and bear the burden of the other person. To have a firm foundation when building relationships is reciprocating to the love you receive.

How To Build Trust In A Relationship - 7 Concrete Tips

How to Build Trust in a Relationship - Concrete Tip One
Reliability is the key to building your partners trust. Excitement is great, but predictability forges a better foundation in your relationship. Now, you don't want to be boring (yawn) but you do want your lover to feel safe with you...make sense? Surprise them occasionally with different activities, but always be reliable, and their love for you will grow, as you build trust in your relationship.
How to Build Trust in a Relationship - Concrete Tip Two
If you want your partner to feel safe with you make sure your body language matches your words. If you say one thing but your expression, or body language says another. You will be sending a mixed message, and they will lose trust in your words, and eventually you too. If you don't try to hide your true feelings from your partner, you'll build more trust in your relationship.
How to Build Trust in a Relationship - Concrete Tip Three
You need to have actual respect for your partner...if you do not respect them, they will be able to sense this no matter how you talk or act (see tip2). Two people have to have mutual respect for each other in order for this relationship to survive. If your partner feels that you believe their a competent person you will be building a lot of trust in your relationship.
How to Build Trust in a Relationship - Concrete Tip Four
This one is really a "no-brainer" but it needs to be said anyways. You don't want to keep any secrets (short of a surprise trip/gift) from your partner...OK? All the time and energy that goes into keeping a secret could be put to better use. After all when did a lie ever build trust in any kind of relationship?
How to Build Trust in a Relationship - Concrete Tip Five
Open communication is a big key in sustaining a meaningful relationship. If you have something to tell your partner let him/her know what it is. The longer you sit on a problem, the bigger it becomes. Pretty soon it's bigger than both of you and now you're screwed. Don't let lack (or fear) of communication weaken the foundation of trust in your relationship.
How to Build Trust in a Relationship - Concrete Tip Six
Stand your ground...don't be a push over. It's hard to respect someone (see tip 3) if they always bend and never stand up to their partner. He/she will think more of you if you stand your ground once in a while, and fight to be heard. Showing your strong character will actually build the foundation of trust in your relationship much faster, than being a "push over."
How to Build Trust in a Relationship - Concrete Tip Seven
Growth is essential to the survival of just about anything on this planet. Your relationship is no different. Don't be afraid to "get your hands dirty" once in a while. What I mean is do not be afraid to color outside of the lines to make your point. Sometimes you have to be willing to lose your partner by bringing up issues they don't want to (but need to) face. You will actually build their respect towards you while building the trust in your relationship as well.
I hope these seven tips have helped you understand a little more about how a healthy relationship works. If you have any questions about this article, please leave me a comment on my Blog in the comment box. What can I do to help you build trust in your relationship? Or better yet; What can you do today to build more trust between you and your partner?

Until next time,

S. Williams

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Are Your Friends Hurting Your Relationship?

You exist within a web of relationships. For instance, if your friend is going through tough times, you may find yourself feeling an emotional heaviness throughout the day, thinking and worrying about your friend. As this colors your mood, your partner may start to notice that lately you've been preoccupied and down. Since emotions are contagious, this will impact your partner in some way and her/his interactions with others may now be different as a result of what your friend shared with you.
How is this relevant to your marriage or relationship?
Your relationship exists within a larger social context, and your friends, coworkers, family, and even the society in which you live can directly or indirectly impact your relationship. Think of your relationship as one link on a never-ending chain of connectedness.
This was evident with two couples I recently coached:
A brief story of relationship isolation:
Tad and Wanda have lived together for a little over a year and during a recent coaching session, Wanda complained that "all of our friends seem to be getting divorced or breaking up. It's depressing and makes me think there's something wrong with me for trying to make my relationship work. When I try to talk to my friends about a fight I had with Tad, they just tell me to 'find someone better-suited to you,' or 'relationships are overrated anyway.' The whole 'there are lots of fish in the sea' mindset isn't helpful when I'm trying to make my relationship work now."
Tad and Wanda lack the couple-to-couple support that is vital for a sustainable, long-term relationship. They both struggle with feeling like the "oddball couple" in a sea of failed relationships (and they don't have any single friends who are pro-relationship)—and both acknowledged that this was starting to negatively impact their union.
A brief story of marital support:
Molly and Jeff have been together for eleven years. Both are retired and have been active participants in their local community and volunteer for numerous causes. This involvement has offered them opportunities to develop friendships and socialize with other couples.
Molly joked that their friends "saved our marriage on at least two occasions" because of the support they offered Molly. She shared, "If Jeff and I are going through a difficult time, for whatever reason, I don't feel alone. I have at least two other women I can talk to who have been through difficult times but they're still happily married…I know I'm not alone in my struggles and that makes a world of difference. And I have a few single friends who are supportive of my relationship and committed relationships in general, even though they're not in one now. All that encouragement among my friends really helps whenever I start to worry that the challenges of a romantic relationship might be too much for me."
The need for relationship support
Couples love to hear about other couples who have successful relationships. Have you ever noticed how people in relationships are happy to learn that a famous couple is in it for the long haul? Many couples feel validated to discover that their favorite movie star or musician has resisted the temptations that come with fame and are committed to one person. Notice your reaction the next time you hear that people you know and/or admire are splitting up.
Couples root for other couples—there is an unspoken, cosmic connection, a sense that we're in this together. If Brad and Angelina can make their relationship work, and your neighbors and friends can make their relationships work, you end up feeling more hopeful that you can make your own work.
Seek Out Relationship Support
Relationship support comes in many forms and the first step is to look in your own backyard. Make a list of all the individuals and couples you know and admire: family, friends, teachers, community leaders, local organizations or church members.
You might be surprised to learn that there are people in your life that have been married or together for a long time (and feel lucky to be with the same person). These couples can be an emotional resource for you and your partner. Would you consider asking them about their relationship, especially what has worked for them? Are you willing to seek their support when you (or your partner) need advice or guidance?
We all need relationship mentors—couples who have successfully navigated the complicated interpersonal terrain that comes with committed relationships. This doesn’t mean you should overlook friends not currently in relationships as potential sources of support. Often single friends who understand and celebrate you and your relationship can be a safe place to go to when you need a different perspective or just need to vent.
Don't overlook the vast relationship wisdom that surrounds you.
Many couples like spending time with other couples. If most of your friends seem to be in dire relationship straits or your friends' values regarding commitment differ from your own, you need to expand your social network—seek out couples you and your partner can socialize with, couples dedicated to making their own relationships work. The goal of expanding your couples-support-system doesn't mean you have to abandon your current friends because they aren't in a relationship or their relationship is in trouble—it means that you enrich your circle of friends to include those that believe in the benefit of a long-term, committed relationship and will help support you in yours.
It might seem like a paradox that you can be with someone you deeply love, yet still feel isolated. Often couples assume feeling isolated means there is something wrong with their relationship—while this can be an indication that there are problems that need to be addressed, it can also be an indication that your relationship is surrounded by negativity and a lack of support.
No matter how strong your relationship might seem, you and your partner do not exist in a vacuum. When you establish the goal of building a support network for your relationship, you have taken an important step in buffering the damaging effects of relationship-isolation.
Is your relationship worth protecting? Are you ready to make your marriage everything it can be?

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How To Make Your Relationship More Exciting

Throughout my professional career I've come across many people that were lacking excitement in their relationship. Many of them have experienced some form of it in the beginning of their relationship- but they all seem to ask me the same question..."where did all the fun go...and how can I get it back?"

I know that when you're starting a new relationship it may be fun, exciting, and there are few arguments (if any). Someone even compared it to buying a new car and having that new car smell. But what happens after all the fun stops?

Here's what you can do to get the fun back:

1. Show your creative side. When it comes to making a successful, long-lasting relationship, sometimes we need to think outside of the box. Coming up with fresh ideas for love and romance (or even where the next place you'll go to spend time together) could be the key to keeping your relationship thrilling.

2.Get Spontaneous. Do things "just because". Surprise your partner by planning a nice romantic getaway. Summer is here, so traveling around this time may be very enjoyable for the both of you.

3. Talk to your partner. Find out from your partner why your relationship is starting to get boring. Are there things going on in his/her life (bills, work, etc) that's stressing him/her out (this may be the reason for the lack of excitement)? Or is he/she just plainly losing interest in the relationship? Communicate with your partner to find out what's going on and then take it from there.

Whatever you need to do to make your relationship more exciting, then do it. You have to be the pro-active one if you want to get the love life that you desire.

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